That video made me have a post-traumatic stress reaction. I've had too many encounters like that. Certain men, usually drunk, get really angry at older, smart, self-possessed women. Often, there is indeed an element of one-way sexual tension, which makes the men even more angry--they are humiliated to be drawn to a female who doesn't match their definition of "attractive" (plus there are usually mummy issues)--especially when they realize the interest is not reciprocated. Things can get quite scary, depending on the level of inebriation. I don't miss it.
Wow, this is a lucid, sensible, honest post.
Would you like a new c-town advice column?